Same circle.
Another week.
Get to know a small group of people through regular conversation. Say hello, share as much as you like, and return to familiar faces. No stories or acts of care are required.
Inside a first meetingA season for
new friends.
Meet new friends in the same small weekly circle. Get to know each other over ninety days; optional prompts help start a conversation, with nothing to prepare.
90DAYS OF LOVE
WEEK 01Notice a kindnessOpen the week +
Notice a little kindness
Start with names and a little about your week. If you like, mention a kindness you noticed and ask someone about theirs. Listening or passing is welcome.
Meet a weekly circleWEEK 02Use a nameAn optional way to start.
WEEK 03Make some roomAn optional way to start.
WEEK 04Ask a follow-upAn optional way to start.
WEEK 05Offer a little helpOpen the week +
Make a little room
As people become familiar, ask what has been on their mind. A moment of everyday care can start the conversation; there is no task to complete.
Meet a weekly circleWEEK 06Remember a detailAn optional way to start.
WEEK 07Share a routineAn optional way to start.
WEEK 08Return a favorAn optional way to start.
WEEK 09Leave an invitationAn optional way to start.
WEEK 10Listen a little longerAn optional way to start.
WEEK 11Return to a storyAn optional way to start.
WEEK 12Find the next helloOpen the week +
Remember a detail
Ask a circle member whether they want to return to something they shared earlier. A familiar name and a thoughtful question can help a friendship grow.
Meet a weekly circleOptional conversation starters. Open weeks 1, 5 or 12; every week begins with people.